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What’s next after being ignored by my husband? | Advice

He loves me often and tells me that he is a great stepfather and grandfather and shares much of my interests. Should I finally give up and call it “enough”? Should I be grateful for a long-term relationship when many women of my age become widowed or divorced?

I have forgiven my negligence many times, but as the years go by, loneliness returns. To say all this out loud, I look pathetic, but I’m open to hearing your thoughts.

Dear Ignore: Nothing you said in the letter is pathetic. Don’t have too much trouble. Changing your appearance does not change your husband’s desire to have sex with you. You can’t control his behavior, but you can control your behavior. The fact that you wrote this letter shows that you are ready for change.

Do not allow his sexual desire for you to determine your self-esteem. You are more than that. Being with him seems to make you more sad and lonely, but I don’t know if it’s better than being alone and finding someone who wants and deserves you.

It’s time to talk to your husband about going to a couple counseling together. You can’t and shouldn’t continue this way.

Dear Annie: I’m tired. I have been in a marriage story for 6 years, but I haven’t been engaged yet. He was married before, but I have never been married.

What’s next after being ignored by my husband? | Advice

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